Porn Addiction Recovery Tool: Always on Guard and what that looks like

Porn Addiction Recovery Tool: Always on Guard and what that looks like   Often we have trouble understanding what it means to always be on Guard. (1 Cor. 16:13) When in recovery it’s easy to get complacent and feel good when temptation is low and we feel like “it must be over” but in reality we need to constantly be aware of our state of mind and heart. I believe…

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6 Results of Two Porn Addicts Dating Each Other

6 Problems with Two Porn Addicts Dating Each Other The epidemic of porn use is causing untold amounts of damage to our culture, and in our ministry we particularly see the damage it causes in marriages. We counsel couples regularly that are struggling with one or the other’s involvement in pornography.   This is one of the reasons that we encourage people to ask those that they are dating about…

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Rethinking Temptation – The Church of Porn or the Arms of Jesus

The number of men I speak to that describe how afraid they are of temptation is incredible. I suppose when you think of it, it makes sense after all. Temptation can lead to falling into sin, and with a history of falling we begin to fear the temptation itself. But I would like to propose a different way of thinking about temptation. I honestly think that shifting our thinking can…

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Porn – God’s reminder of our need for Him in a Culture of Self Sufficiency

Have you ever noticed or considered the reality that, in our North American culture, we don’t really have a tangible need for God?   Historically, the church thrives in countries where there is life-threatening persecution. The thought of losing our lives for the sake of Jesus is, foreign if not entirely unthinkable to us here.   The North American dream is to work hard and become rich, the perfect equation…

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Podcasts Featuring the McVetys

It has been a while since I’ve posted a podcast update for everyone. Here are some of our most recent additions to podcasts that Melissa and I recorded with the DFR team. Thanks for listening, our prayer is that your marriage and family would be blessed and strengthened by our honesty and sharing. Podcast 50: Securing Your Freedom From Pornography: What Wise Men Addicted Can Do Podcast 55: Trusting God…

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6 Steps to Freedom From Porn

The porn epidemic and the problems that come along with it are becoming a widespread reality. Its not just Christian conservatives who are calling it out for what it is. Science is consistently finding the levels of addiction and issues that come into play with porn. In spite of how many of you might feel, freedom from this issue IS possible. I know many men that have decided that stumbling…

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